This past week I saw a video on Facebook. It was of Dame Helen Mirren, the British actress, who was addressing the graduating class of Tulane University. In the speech, she gave the students her five easy steps for having a happy life. They were don't be in a rush to get married, treat people as people, ignore anyone who judges you by the way you look, don't be afraid of fear and don't over complicate things. Some of these things I agree with. Others, not so much. But in thinking about this, I thought that maybe I should present some rules on being happy. So here goes, Darren's 9 rules for a happy life.